I remember that day well…
Earlier on, there had been an invitation from a good 
friend of mine, one of the kindest people I have met on the planet. She 
had invited me to come over for a birthday get-together. It would simply
 be barbeque and drinks with friends in the back garden and it would be 
fun, she had said. I didn’t really know the person celebrating that day,
 but I decided I’d honour the invitation and go over.
Perhaps, if I had known how the day would unravel, I would
 have stayed back in my apartment, content with playing a video game, 
munching pizza and downing cider – but, I had no idea, and like we say 
in Africa, I carried my two legs and went over.
I walked through the door way with my most polite 
“hello-people” smile on my face, relieved to see a few familiar faces – 
and it was then it dawned on me that I was the only black person around.